But we don’t WANT to leave the house because all our favorite spots are crowded! 😀
But we don’t WANT to leave the house because all our favorite spots are crowded! 😀
92 years ago TODAY (January 27, 1925) the race to save Nome, Alaska, began.
Seems like a good reason to go to the library and get a book to brush up on this event!
Here are the books you can look for:
Balto of the Blue Dawn (Magic Tree House Book #54). There is also the Magic Tree House Fact Tracker, Dogsledding and Extreme Sports: A Nonfiction Companion to Magic Tree House #54: Balto of the Blue Dawn. But I haven’t read it so I don’t know how much of it is about Balto.
Five True Dog Stories
-contains the story of Balto and other dogs who did amazing things
Alaska’s Dog Heroes
-another good one for the kid interested in more amazing dogs – also contains Balto’s story.
Just a small drop in the bucket of reasons why we homeschool. Education is important but we are training up for greater things also – a heart for God and a heart for hurting people!
Why do you homeschool?
I see articles all the time called “Reasons Why You Should Homeschool”. But I’m not here to tell you why YOU should homeschool.
Instead, I want to tell you why I homeschool. Maybe some of these reasons will resonate with you. But some of them might now. Some people homeschool for one reason…whatever it may be, that one reason is enough for them. Others, like myself, homeschool for MANY reasons.
A lot of homeschoolers site religious reasons as why they choose to homeschool. And while that is important to us and our homeschool day centers around our faith, religious reasons are more of a “perk” of homeschooling and not one of the initial reasons why we chose to homeschool in the first place.
Why Do I Homeschool? My Reasons for Choosing Home Education
Number 1 – Common Core is scary.
Early on, naysayers of Common Core were considered nuts, paranoid, annoying, uneducated and probably some other words I can’t think of at the moment.
We were told “It’s just a set of standards.”
But I think truth is coming to light. Please be aware of what’s going on. From data mining our children, inappropriate sex education, “teaching to the test”, complicating math, endless hours of homework, to shorter recesses and eliminating arts and music. I could link to hundreds or articles. I could talk about it all day. But none of it is good! (I have many teacher friends and MOST of them very much dislike Common Core.)
Number 2 – Socialization
You’re probably thinking, “Wait…what? Isn’t socialization one of the arguments against homeschooling?”
That is the go-to response from people who have no idea what homeschooling really is. “But what about socialization?” Because if your child doesn’t go to public school he’s going to be a weirdo.
Honestly, the idea that grouping a bunch of emotionally-immature same-aged children together and insisting that they’re learning appropriate social skills from each other is about as antiquated as believing that the Sun revolves around the Earth.
That is to say, it’s been proven time again to not be so. “Mean girls”, bullies, school shooters, hazing, children committing suicide, self esteem issues, teen pregnancy, peer pressure and drug use are the results of “public school socializing”.
If you think I’m only pointing to extreme examples, fine. Just look at the day-to-day examples. With rigorous class schedules and curriculum schedules and little time for recess, short lunches and rules against talking during class, in the halls and even at lunch, when do they get to “socialize”?
Instead my son is being socialized with peers, older children, adults and role models of my choosing, or at the very least my discretion. This includes numerous church activities, our local homeschool co-op group, families with whom we share like-minded beliefs, play dates and field trips with other homeschoolers, as well as 6-10 hours of karate training each week. Our social calendar is full. We have time for more “socialization” opportunities than if he went to school for 30 hours a week with an additional 10 hours of homework.
Number 3 – More relaxed learning
Public school has become a 40+ hour work week for kids. It shouldn’t be that way. (At the time of originally writing these reasons) My son would be a little more than halfway through kindergarten if I had sent him on to public school. At a rate of 40 hours a week all he would have to show for it is that he is halfway through kindergarten.
But because of choosing to homeschool and being to evaluate his level and tailor his learning to him and him alone, in half the time (roughly 20 hours of school a week – and that’s really pushing it, it’s really more like only 15 hours of school a week) he is almost halfway through 1st grade. We are by no means looking to rush through school. But why hold him back if he’s perfectly capable of doing the work?
Homeschooling is more school, more learning, in less time….but still at a relaxed pace.
Number 4 – The thought of going to school made my child anxious
At 5 years old, my child panicked if someone mentioned how excited he must be that he would get to go to school soon. I don’t know why. Even though homeschooling had been on our minds for a while, we never spoke of school around him. And had been in daycare as an infant and toddler, and went to half-day preschool as a 3 and 4 year old.
But he was terrified about going to school. And I do not subscribe to the theory of “just send him and he’ll adjust.” Why should I if I don’t have to? Why would I WANT to cause him more agitation and anxiety. (Since originally writing this, my son, now 8, has made improvements by leaps and bounds in his social anxiety issues. But he did it in HIS TIME. Not because I shoved him through the door of a school at 5 years old)
Number 5 – My boy is all boy
That is to say, he is active and wiggly. He can’t sit in a chair to save his life (he stands at the kitchen table during 80% of his school work). When he’s excited about something he can’t contain his enthusiasm. And if he wants to “talk it out” he’ll pop if you don’t let him.
If you add that to reasons 3 and 4 above you’ll get reason #6:
Number 6 – I wanted my child’s first educational experiences to be positive.
I know there are some really wonderful teachers out there. But then there are ones that aren’t. And I hear stories from parents of public school kids of the years their child gets a teacher that just doesn’t mesh with their personality or their learning style. With so many children in one classroom and no child exactly like the others, I know it’s hard to cater to each personality.
Bug loves to learn, always has. I wanted him to be challenged academically at his level, to not be anxious, and to have the freedom to be him. I feared him being labeled a problem child because he can’t sit in a desk, always refrain from blurting out, or has to bounce up and down because he’s so excited to answer a question. After all, he’s barely 6. Those skills will come with age.
For now, the most important thing is that he loves to learn. And I didn’t want a bad first year at school experience to squash that.
And finally Number 7 – The most important reason we chose to homeschool
Homeschooling is right for our family.
I understand that homeschooling is not right for every family. But I have a feeling it may be right for more families than actually do it. Many families tend to dismiss the idea without giving it real thought because they feel they are unqualified, don’t have enough patience, or think it’s too hard.
Let me let you in on a little secret…
We all start out unqualified. Seriously. Homeschooling is one of those things you just have to jump in feet first and learn as you go along. I don’t care if you have a college degree. You are no more or no less qualified to homeschool as the mom with 2 semesters of junior college under her belt (that would be me by the way…) It’s a learning process for everyone.
None of us have enough patience. But we have the Grace of God. And on those days when it feels like the patience is gone, we lean more on God to get us through…and he does. And every day is new. And once you learn your rhythm and what works for your family, you’ll find the patience testing times fewer and farther between.
And it is hard. But it is twice as rewarding as it is hard.
I would love to hear your reasons for homeschooling, your thoughts or any of your comments below!
As a homeschooler, it’s important to get what you need to educate your kids while also saving money. So, we compiled a list of the best affordable homeschool resources – all available for $20 or less on Educents.
Homeschool Planner – This planner includes dated journal pages, practical forms, motivational quotes, and teaching aides to make your homeschool planning effortless and enjoyable.
Do-a-Dot Mega Bundle – 17 different activities that cover fine motor skills, numbers, letters, sight words, word families, shapes, colors, patterns, and early addition. All of these items are designed for us with do-a-dot markers, but they also come with a variety of suggestions for alternative uses.